Valentine’s Day is distinctive among other holidays in that we celebrate love, not a person, group of people or historical event. Valentine’s Day is that one day to make everyone you love feel loved, significant and special in your life.
What was once one of my personal favorite holidays has been diminished somewhat by social media and marketing. Social media has made it into a competition based on what someone receives, with everyone posting their flowers and presents, making those that don’t receive feel less valuable or unloved. We must all be cognizant of what we post. Sharing our joy should be just that—not a symbol of materialism. For those who don’t have family or a significant other and may not receive flowers or gifts, a simple shout-out of love and recognition can be just as impactful as those overpriced valentine flowers.
So this Valentine’s Day, let’s all set an example and focus on posting joyful, inclusive valentine posts. Instead of flowers or gifts, post pictures of people or things that are significant in your life, along with a message of love.
This year I have decided to post pictures of my kids telling significant people in their lives that they love them. Taking time from a busy schedule to create a cute valentine post lets loved ones know we are thinking of them on this day and how special they are to us. To accomplish something like this, you don't have to spend a lot of money to create a mini photo shoot of your own. Dollar stores have inexpensive items you can use to make a sign, then just add a few red balloons.
Outside of posting your love on social media, other simple ideas are to make a batch of cookies, let the kids decorate them and help deliver them to those who live close by. Or create a simple treat bag if you don’t have time to bake. Kids love to help with these activities. Nothing says love more than spending quality time with someone. Even Papa Murphy’s makes heart pizzas you can pick up and take over to those grandparents or elderly neighbors who don’t get out or don’t have social media. Add a print from your mini photo shoot as a card on those treats. Be sure to mail one to those who live far away.
Valentine’s Day is meant to be a special time for those special people in your life, and making others feel loved and special makes you feel good too. And they will adore you!
Alexandra Hombs is a freelance writer and designer who lives in Riverside, MO, with her husband and two children.