As warmer temps come our way, you’re probably itching to get out and about with your little ones again. But outings with a toddler aren’t always as simple as they seem. Gone are the days of easy sleeping and quiet playing, but with some thoughtful preparation, you can make your next toddler outing in KC a great one!
Bring the Right Gear
You’re going to be toting some gear if you plan on successfully getting out with your toddler for the day. This should include extra diapers/underwear and a change of clothes. To make sure you don’t forget, just keep a small bag of these extras in the back of the car, so they’re always on hand! Spring weather can still be chilly, so don’t forget to grab an extra jacket or a hat. A couple of books or favorite toys for the car are must-haves for a longer drive, and a travel packet of wet wipes helps with sticky hands and spills.
Baby Wearing
If you’re a parent of multiples, baby wearing could be your ticket to hands-free fun. Whether they choose a wrap or a carrier, many local moms wouldn’t leave the house without one. You will want to practice wearing your wrap or carrier before using it away from home.
Stroller Selection
If baby wearing isn’t your thing, consider which type of stroller you would like to have on hand. The larger ones carry items for you as well (Thank you, Mommy Hook!), but a slim umbrella stroller is so easy to carry along.
Stock Up on Snacks
Prepackage finger foods or fill up snack-size Ziplocs to help toddlers self-serve when you’re on the go. If the outing will run close to a mealtime, bring plenty of tummy-filling options.
Timing Is Everything
Depending on your toddler’s nap time, your best bet is probably going to be leaving first thing after breakfast or waiting until later, right after a nap. Don’t make the mistake of being in the middle of a fun activity just to realize your toddler is about to fall apart thanks to tiredness.
Invite a Friend
An outing is a great time to make sure you get some adult time in, too. Invite a friend or two who also have little ones. While the kids get a playmate, you’ll get some much-needed parent-to-parent socialization.
Behavior Preparation
Let’s face it: Unwanted behavior can pop up anytime. Be prepared in case your toddler has a meltdown during the outing and have a plan in place for how you will respond in a given location. You will be more likely to remain calm if it happens, which also helps de-escalate a problem. And remember, most people around you are well-acquainted with toddler moods, so no one around you is judging!
Talk It Up
Kansas City mom Taneka Brown says that preparing her 2-year-old daughter helps her outings go more smoothly. “Before a special outing, we talk about what we’re going to see and do. This sets my daughter up for success, so she is more likely to act better and be excited about going.” Think about your toddler’s personality and how to best prepare him for the trip. Some toddlers will need more encouragement to participate in a new activity, and discussing and showing pictures of a new place will help other toddlers not be overwhelmed upon arrival.
Outing Checklist:
- Diaper bag/backpack
- Extra clothes
- Jacket and hat
- Snacks
- Stroller/baby carrier
- Wet wipes
- Car toys/books
Emily Cline lives in Lenexa with her husband and 3-year-old son.