Kids Are Just Like Us
What is it about being small that makes children that much cuter than the rest of us “big” people? We can’t compete with a child’s high pitch voice, sweet little toes, creative imagination and cheesy smile. There’s no doubt that kids are much cuter than you and I; however, they are also just like us in many ways. But these little cutie pies in the world, whether they are 6 months or 6 years old, resemble us in many ways. See for yourself –
1. They are sensitive to other people’s moods. If you’ve had a bad day at the office, or everything has gone wrong for you at home with the kids, usually everyone is well aware that you’re probably not in the cheeriest of moods. Babies and kids can sense this, too, and it affects how they feel as well.
2. They get bored after a while, so change it up! Whether it’s hanging out in a swing or bouncy seat, or coloring and painting, babies and kids need a new change of scenery. And I’m sure you can understand this. Especially if you stare at a computer or deal with kids all day, something different can really help with the lull in the day.
3. They want everything to come naturally. Babies want to be able to roll. Toddlers want to be able to eat by and dress themselves. We want to be able to understand the new computer system fluently, get that recipe right the first time, or just take off in the new spinning class we signed up for. News Flash: Things take time, so give it the time it requires.
4. Fresh air can do wonders! Whether you’re cooped up in a cubicle, with kids at home, or in an Exersaucer, some of the best moments can be catching some of the fresh air outside. Try to take time for this.
5. Sometimes, babies and kids need to zone out. With the push right now to have our kids (and babies) in so many educationally challenging activities, one has to wonder where the down time is. Overstimulation can cause crankiness, so just try and relax. Your baby and/or kids are JUST FINE.
6. We like to be creatures of habit. Routine. Predictability. Stability. Routines in our day, though we might be tempted to complain about it, make us feel safe and in control. Sure, I’d like to change it up every now and then, but overall, I like the stability of days being mapped out fairly the same. Babies and kids are the same way. They thrive when they know what’s coming next because the day is organized, and they can can count on it.
Next time you look at your kids and wonder why they are acting the way they are, remember that they’re only human, and they are much more normal than we give them credit for. In fact, they are basically just little people on their way to becoming the grown-ups that all of us have become!