Your child’s doctor plays an important role in her life, so you will need to find one that is a good fit for both the parents and the child. You will visit the pediatrician often. In the first year, your baby will have seven well visits. Studies show that first-time parents may visit their child’s pediatrician up to 16 times before the baby’s first birthday (FitPregnancy.com). Finding the right pediatrician for your family can be challenging. Here are some tips to get you started on your search:
Ask for recommendations
As a first-time parent or a family that has just relocated, you may wonder where to begin your search for a pediatrician. “I asked other moms for recommendations. It’s a great way to see what names come up repeatedly,” says Jill Miller, mom of two. Stacy Cook, Olathe nurse and mom of three, suggests asking your OB/GYN for a recommendation. “I figured if they were good enough for my doctor’s kids, then they were good enough for mine.” Some parents, like Nathan and Wendy Hladky of Overland Park, choose the same primary care doctor for the whole family. “All four of us use the same doctor. It is super convenient,” says Nathan.
Another great way to narrow your search in a new area is to call the local NICU and ask the nurses who they would recommend. “The nurses are more likely to give unbiased feedback,” says Rodganna Avery, mom of four.
Do your research
First, you must compare your list of candidates with your insurance policy. “I look to see what providers are in our network then start looking for reviews of those doctors online,” says Stephanie Beaudry, a Nebraska mom of two.
Check whether the doctor is certified by the American Board of Pediatrics. This means the doctor has passed a specialized test in pediatrics. If you choose a family doctor, ask whether the doctor is certified in the American Board of Family Medicine. Family doctors are trained to treat patients of all ages, including children, but they do not have a specialty in pediatrics.
Next consider the basic office information that can be found online or with a quick phone call. What are the office hours? Do they have walk-in hours? Will the doctor visit the hospital where you will deliver your baby? What hospital will your child be admitted to if needed? Is the office location convenient to your home, work, school and daycare? Take these things into consideration as you narrow down your list.
Visit the office
To find out whether you feel comfortable in the pediatrician’s office, you will have to take a tour. Call the office and ask whether they have times set up for potential patients to come and visit the office or whether you would need to make an appointment. Ask whether you can interview the doctor at the same time. Remember to ask whether there is a charge for visiting. Verify with your insurance company to see whether the cost would be covered or you would be responsible for the fees.
When visiting the office, be aware of what the overall environment feels like. Take into consideration whether the office staff is courteous, polite and willing to help. Is the office clean and inviting? Was parking convenient? Do they have separate sick and well waiting areas? Take all these things into consideration in making your decision. If you plan to visit more than one office, be sure to take notes for later consideration.
Ask some questions
After you have decided that the office environment is a good fit, you will need to interview the pediatrician. Darcy and Phil King, Olathe pharmacists and parents of two, say, “After collecting recommendations, we scoured their websites, set up appointments and interviewed them. After the visits, it was very clear which was a good fit.”
Start by asking how sick appointments work. How long would it take for a sick child to be seen? Is there a good chance the child will be seen by his own doctor? Do you have similar views on health and wellness such as circumcision, breastfeeding and immunizations? It is also important to consider what your preferences are. BabyCenter.com puts it this way: “Do you want a doctor who offers choices and lets you decide which one works best for you? Or would you be more comfortable with one who gives a lot of directions?” Overall, does the doctor seem genuinely interested in your child or seem distracted or rushed? Take your overall impression into account when making your decision.
Bedside manner
How the doctor interacts with your child will have a lot of impact on the decision about which pediatrician to choose. Do you feel comfortable around the doctor? Does your child? Are the physician willing to take the time to listen to your questions and concerns? A good bedside manner can go a long way in making you and your child feel comfortable.
Finding the right pediatrician can be overwhelming, but realize your decision does not have to be permanent. “It’s important to recognize you are not stuck with your decision. You see your pediatrician a lot in those first months, and if there is something really bothering you, it’s OK to switch,” says Becky Baldridge, Olathe mom of two. The parent’s goal is the same as the pediatrician’s: a happy and healthy child. When you find a doctor that is a good fit for your family, you can all work together to reach this goal.
When is it time to find a new pediatrician?
- If your child cries the whole time, that alone is not cause to switch. However, if the doctor doesn’t seem to care or make an effort to soothe your child, you may have a problem.
- If you’re unclear why a certain medication is prescribed or why a test is done.
- If you can’t come to an agreement, or at least a middle ground, on most issues.
- If the location and hours no longer work for your family.
- If the doctor often seems inaccessible when your child is sick.
- If the doctor is making you feel bad or consistently reproaching you for parenting choices.
- If you feel the doctor is not listening to your concerns.
Before switching, discuss your concerns with the doctor. If a compromise cannot be made, it’s time to look elsewhere. Your child’s health is top priority.
Sarah Lyons is a mother of six children, including 9-year-old triplets. With a full house, they visit the pediatrician often.