For many KC Parents, students and even teachers, conference time can be stressful but it's important to just RELAX!! Everyone at the conference has the same goal; working together to ensure the best school experience for your child. Here are a few tips to make the most of this important event.
Be Prompt
A conference is usually only about 20 minutes. It is important to arrive on time or a few minutes early. In that same vein, don’t stay longer than your allotted time.
Be Prepared
Since the conference is so short it is important to be prepared and stay on task. If you have received your child’s grade card go over it with your child. Write down any questions or concerns you or your child may have. Think about your child’s areas of strength and areas where improvement is needed. Take notes during your conference.
Be Positive
Try to begin the conference on a positive note. Think of something you have seen come home in your child’s backpack that was a neat activity or mention something special you have seen in going on in the classroom. If you begin with a litany of complaints the conference will be less than productive for everyone.
Be Open
Be prepared to talk about your child as well as listen. After all, no one knows your child better than you! Do your best to be open-minded to suggestions from the teacher and don’t get defensive.
The conference doesn’t end when you leave the school. Children worry and wonder about what is said at conferences. Alleviate their fears by sharing with them what you and the teacher discussed.
Keep in mind that the teacher is your partner and wants to work with you so that your child has a great school year. Being prompt, prepared, positive and open will allow you to have a successful parent/teacher conference!