Tips for Helping with Homework
School is out for the day, you’re able to leave work on time and dinner is all planned and ready to go. The kids are streaming in, and everything seems to be going perfectly. So what is missing here? Homework!
You want to make sure it gets done, but also done the right way. Oh, what to do, what to do?
Pay close attention—here are some keys to success!
1. Set up a homework-friendly work environment.
Schedule a regular study time in a cool, calm place filled with supplies. If your kids have the materials to be successful, that’s one less reason they might not finish their homework. Always have paper, pens and pencils ready to go.
2. Eliminate or keep distractions to a minimum.
Things like the television, loud music and cell phones are okay for parties or social gatherings, but not so much for an effective homework environment. Be mindful of what you allow in a place of focus. If you allow distractions to happen, you’ll only blame yourself later. Trust me.
3. Watch for signs of frustration.
It’s so easy to get caught up in whether the assignment gets finished or pushed to the side. But be conscious of the student—your child—and whether he is showing signs of discomfort or frustration. If he is, have him take a second to relieve a little stress. Deep breaths usually work. Inhale relief and exhale stress. Have him step completely out of the work environment and back into it when he’s ready. You want to make sure the assignment gets completed, but you also want to make sure your child is learning along the way. Stress free.
4. Don’t do it for them.
Being suckered into doing homework isn’t as crazy as it may sound. Kids are tricky, and parents don’t like to see their children struggle. Especially if you can be their relief. But guiding them and completely taking over are two completely different things. Just make sure you let them do the work. If you do all the work, what exactly are they learning?
5. Motivate, Supervise and Praise
Let your children know you care. Ask about quizzes and upcoming tests. Don’t hover over them while they do their homework, but make sure you’re available to answer or walk through any difficult questions they may have. Periodically check in to make sure the work gets finished. Let them know all the great things that come from finding out the answers themselves. Last but not least, PRAISE them! Encouragement goes a long way. If kids know they’re doing something wonderful, odds are they’ll repeat it.
Jessica Samuel is a native of St. Louis and current Kansas City resident, journalist, photographer, graduate student, ALLY.